How To Keep Him Interested In You Forever

How To Keep Him Interested In You Forever

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away  

How To Keep Him Interested In You Forever - “I once had a thousand desires. But in my one desire to know you, all else melted away.”

- Rumi

Rita, a massage therapist from San Diego, was fresh from a breakup when she met Henry.

Her ex walked out on her without warning after five whole years of being together. So, she was keen on starting over with her new guy.

She’d only been seeing Henry for a couple of months, but she knew he was different from the guys she’d been seeing during the short time she became single.

Several dates later, everything was going great…

…until, well, they weren’t.

Henry was super affectionate and constantly updating Rita with what he was up to. If he wasn’t sending funny messages throughout the day, he’d fire off a quirky picture with a silly caption.

But then the communication slowed down to the point Rita had to text him a few times before he’d send a half-hearted reply. She practically had to beg him to make plans before they could go out again.

Henry’s behavior left Rita scratching her head in confusion. What made matters worse that her old fears of being left hanging in the air started to bubble to the surface.

She thought to herself, “Who is this guy texting me lukewarm ‘ok’s…and what has he done with the real Henry?”

 

How to Keep That Spark Burning

 

It’s pretty ironic that someone who has a job like Rita’s would have a hard time keeping a guy’s interest, isn’t it?

Ok, kidding aside, there are some things a woman can do to make sure her guy doesn’t ever get bored or think about leaving.

And most women think that he needs to feel a certain way all the time, like being head over heels IN LOVE 24/7.

But the truth is that romantic love ebbs and flows over time. Emotions (and people) evolve in a relationship, and it’s not about constantly being in a lovestruck state for years and years.

Those rose-colored glasses will come off at one point, and a deeper, more mature kind love will blossom in your relationship.

You can help that natural process move along if you give him the signs that you’re a solid partner.

And that starts with creating a stable, grounded relationship that can get through the roughest patches and stay generally positive throughout.

If this climate exists between you two, he’ll stick around no matter how long (or short) you’ve been together.

You just need to cultivate the right habits to make this happen:

 

#1: Make him work for it

 

You see, the hottest relationships are all about push and pull. This is a dynamic where a person pushes their partner into making them feel attractive, desired and the most amazing person they’ve met.

Then the person doing the pushing withdraws a bit – or pulls away - so that they reverse roles with their partner. This way, the hunter becomes the hunted.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

Sometimes, you might push too hard that your guy feels smothered. Or he might give up and lose interest if you play “hard to get” too much.

So, it’s a rather delicate balance to achieve. But when it’s done right, it’s tons of FUN.

Here are a few ways to create this dynamic:

• Don’t be available ALL the time. Keep your schedule balanced and keep doing all the stuff that keeps you happy, fulfilled, refreshed and revitalized.

 

• Have a hobby or passion that doesn’t necessarily pay the bills, but makes you, YOU. Men are interested in a woman who makes it a point to be interesting. This works great because it gives you an additional sense of purpose while effortlessly impressing your guy in the process.

 

• Let your guy DO his own stuff, too. If he says he’s going fishing with the boys or anything else that involves hanging out with them, LET HIM. This sounds like common sense…that is, until the neediness monster takes over. Don’t drop by with a pizza to “see how he’s doing”, or bombard him with a bunch of texts asking him to check in with you. All guys in a relationship need to feel free – within a reasonable level, of course.

 

• Introduce a little tension. Tease him a bit and be playful. Bust his chops every now and then and give him a hard time like his pals do. In some ways, he’s still that kid at the playground trying to catch a girl’s attention by poking fun at her and launching spitballs or whatever. So flirting with him flips the script, keeps him on his toes and hot on your trail.

 

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#2: Be his number one fan

 

If you want your man to stay in the game, take the initiative by setting the bar.

Show him the same behavior you’d like to see from him. Having his back is a good way to do that.

A guy needs to know that you appreciate and cherish who he is now, and who he’s capable of being in the future. This makes him feel accepted and secure in the knowledge that you’re rooting for him.

That means he doesn’t have to hold back some part of himself because he has no reason to. He knows he can be himself, including being vulnerable around you.

And when he can let his guard down with you, it’s a huge sign of TRUST, which is the building block of any successful relationship.

 

#3: Build those inner roads

 

A guy is more likely to stay when his woman knows how to make him feel connected to her.

You can do this by having a good layout of his world. There are a lot of things that occupy his thoughts and make up who he is.

So the more you’re aware of this, the more he’ll know that you care about him as a WHOLE.

Sad to say, but a lot of men bail because they feel their partner is more concerned about filling THAT role in her life, rather than seeing them as a person.

That said, try to familiarize yourself with the following:

• Who’s the biggest person giving him a hard time at work?
• Who are his closest friends?
• Who were his heroes growing up?
• What’s the one thing keeping him up at night?
• What’s his greatest fear?
• What are the things he hasn’t accomplished yet, and would like to do in the next five years?
• If money wasn’t a thing, what would be the perfect job for him?

 

#4: Make it OK for him to disagree with you

 

Oftentimes a guy is afraid that he can’t be honest about his thoughts or opinions with his girl.

He’s worried she’s going to freak out or get into a screaming argument about it.

(Most of the time, in that order.)

Worse, a lot of men have been burned by past partners who tell them it’s ok to be honest…but proceed with said behavior.

To a guy, that’s like asking him to walk through a door…

…with Jason from Friday the 13th waiting with a chainsaw on the other side.

Admittedly, it takes a certain level of maturity to get to a place where you can accept your differences without attacking each other.

And to be perfectly honest, guys are also guilty of this one, too. But to them though, this is a particularly sore spot.

So, if you’re able to handle his opinions and not fly off the handle, he’ll feel more safe around you.

 

#5: Tune into his needs

 

“Well, wait a minute,” you might say. “What about MY needs? Do you expect me to live to please him? Isn’t that one-sided??”

Listen, I get you. No one in their right mind would expect to do ALL the work while the other person sits back and eats their proverbial cake.

If he’s self-centered and makes the relationship all about him, you shouldn’t waste your time on that kind of man. Fair enough, right?

But if you’re with a swell guy (and I’m guessing that he is), your happiness is on his priority list. It’s in every decent guy’s DNA to make sure of that.

And going back to what I said before about setting the bar, a man also loves a woman who can meet him halfway on this.

So build on the habit of getting to know him better, then use that knowledge to give him what he needs.

When you have a good grasp of what he likes and doesn’t like, it’s easy to do little things that make him feel special and valued.

Stuff like his favorite movies, top food choices, interests and hobbies will give you a good idea of the things you can do for him.

The more personalized your acts of kindness are, the bigger effect they’ll have on your man.

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#6: Don’t neglect yourself 

 

I said earlier that you shouldn’t let your passions, social life and career slide because they make you the woman he loves.

And the other side of that coin is taking care of yourself on a more basic level - mainly your looks and well-being.

Now, I’m not saying he shouldn’t do the same…

…I just mean that you should do your part no matter what.

Again, it’s on him if he’s not meeting you halfway.

But here’s the thing: men are NOT after perfection or supermodel-like features in a long-term partner. Deep inside, they know that only gets your foot in the door.

In the bigger scheme of things, he just wants to know you’re making the EFFORT.

That’s it.

He just needs to know you care about looking good around him, and caring about yourself in general.

So, that means being on top of the big three: Fitness, Health and Fashion.

Look at it this way - you’re going to have to do this whether you’re single or in a relationship.

So it’s better to be up to scratch on this stuff - and get a serious partner out of it in the process!

 

#7: Keep him busy in the bedroom

 

Of course I’m going to talk about this. I might sound a little harsh about this, but the sexual component is a non-negotiable in your relationship.

Otherwise, you might end up with a good friend instead of a romantic partner.

So, make him feel like he’s the hottest guy you’ve met.

He knows full well he’s no Brad Pitt (but good on you if he does look like him), but it still matters to him that you DESIRE him that way.

Men want to be WANTED, just like you do. And when you only have eyes for each other – he won’t look elsewhere.     

For starters, don’t be afraid to get tactile with him even when you’re not doing the deed. Hold his hand in public, touch his arm often and give him a kiss before parting ways.

As for the main event, communicate your desires to him when you’re in the heat of the moment.

Tell him when he’s doing it right, get a bit vocal and compliment him on his masculinity.

As far as the bigger picture’s concerned, guys aren’t after the perfect partner or relationship.

They’re more interested in someone who’s just as on board as they are – and more importantly, reassures them that they’re committing to the RIGHT girl.

Once your guy knows he’s making the right choice by being with you, you won’t have to worry about where you stand with him.

But if you’re doing everything possible to keep your man interested and it STILL seems like he’s slipping away, you shouldn’t blame yourself.

Every guy is different, and he has his reasons for withdrawing that have nothing to do with you.

And if you want to know the REAL reason why men pull away – and how to STOP your guy from leaving…

…you need to watch my presentation that explains it ALL – Click Here

How To Keep Him Interested In You Forever

8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away 

8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

“If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”

-Thich Nhat Hanh

Guys don’t always say what they mean, whether it’s unintentional or not.

Sometimes, it’s a case of miscommunication where a man has trouble expressing himself, and you get the wrong message.

For instance, he could be fresh out of a relationship and didn’t know what he was getting into when started going out with you.

He might have thought at first that he was ready to commit, but somewhere down the line he realized that he couldn’t give you what you wanted.

And as he’s working out his feelings, he’ll give you what’s usually known as “mixed signals”.

Then there are times when he knows exactly what he wants, and will do anything to get it…

…even if it means lying to your face.

He’ll charm you into bed, then split the scene once he’s gotten what he wanted.

Either way, it’s NOT the kind of love you’re after.

So how do you know if he’s not feeling “all that” about being with you, whatever reason it may be?

And how do you spot signs of true love so you don’t waste your time on the WRONG guy?

Personally, I don’t believe in any of that mixed signals business. No matter what he says, it’s always his actions and behavior that tell the real story.

Witt that, here are the 8 biggest signs to help you know whether he feels a deep, heartfelt love for you…

…or he’s just taking you for a ride.

Bear in mind that you can spot these telltale clues in any guy, regardless of how long you’ve known him. These traits manifest on a deeper level for long-term relationships, and you’ll see early indications for a newer guy.

At any rate, you’d best find out as soon as possible – here we go…

 

Sign of True Love #1: You’re connected to him

 

You might hear some couples talking about the strong connection they have. They seem to know what the other is thinking, or even finish each other’s sentences.

It’s borderline psychic, and they swear there’s something supernatural going on.

But the real reason couples like them are so in tune is because they pay attention to each other.

There’s nothing complicated about it – they basically cultivate the habit of responding when one of them is trying to make a connection.

For example, you might say to your partner while you’re walking down the street, “Hey honey, check out that Prius with the Hello Kitty decals…I can’t decide if it’s cute or trashy!”

If he just ignores you or shrugs with an apathetic, “Hmm”, then the connection between you might not be as strong as you think.

But if he says something like, “Yeah, definitely trashy… that car’s perfect for you!” with a cheeky grin, then it means he’s really paying attention to you.

And it’s not just about pointing out something interesting to your partner. It can be more subtle, like bringing up a story and seeing how the other reacts, getting a quick opinion on your outfit, or asking for help with the laundry.

These are “small” ways couples try to connect with each other, and it takes practice for couples to get into this groove. You’ll see those who’ve been together for some time are naturally good at this.

On the other hand, a superficial kind of love doesn’t make the effort to make these little connections.

If a guy continuously brushes off your attempts to connect (and not because he just happens to be having a bad day), then he might not be that into the relationship as you think.

Sign of True Love #2: It’s all about clarity

 

When a guy isn’t really in love, it’s not really important to him whether he’s sending a clear message or not.

What do I mean by this?

Well for starters, he has the habit of letting you know at the last minute if he can’t make it or he’s running late.

And when you’re not together, it usually feels like he’s gone off the grid.

You don’t hear from him for long stretches of time, and he won’t bother to let you know what’s going on with him.

Even if he seems like the most charming, fun and sweet guy when you are together - especially in bed…

…he probably isn’t that committed if his actions outside of that are ambiguous.

True love is the opposite of that, which means he’ll leave no room for you to wonder if he’s going to flake out on you or not.

He’s going to make sure that the way he communicates with you is absolutely clear and “on the level”.

 

True Love Sign #3: He actually cares about being TOGETHER

 

With a relationship purely based on lust, there’s little to no effort involved when it comes to doing things that bring a couple closer.

There’s that “I’ll see you when I see you” kind of vibe, and you don’t feel any sort of GROWTH between you.

A man who’s in love is going to make sure he gets to spend time with you, even if he has to rearrange his whole schedule.

And it’s a sure sign he’s super serious if these are ritual type of activities, and not just getting busy between the sheets.

When a guy’s creating shared experiences, he’s also interested in forming a richer, DEEPER connection with you.

It’s not always about going on a weekend getaway or bungee jumping…

…but rather smaller things like huddling together for a weekend Netflix marathon or a Wednesday brunch.

Real love isn’t always focused on chasing the “high” that comes with romance, but also creating a stable routine that forms the foundation of your relationship.

 

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True Love Sign #4: He’s not afraid to push your limits

 

Couples who truly care for each other aren’t worried about being likeable or agreeable all the time.

If they have a difference of opinion, they can handle the fact that they don’t see eye-to-eye on it - especially when it comes to “dealbreaker” kind of topics.

More importantly, they can give their HONEST thoughts on the matter, even if it’s the polar opposite of what the other person believes.

Someone who’s more interested in a one-shot kind of deal (rather than being in it for the long run) isn’t going to risk rocking the boat.

He’ll be in politician mode, saying and doing everything to keep the good times rolling.

He’s thinking, “What’s the point of being honest about it if it’s going to piss her off?”

But a man in love isn’t as worried about the ups and downs, or the disagreements…

…because he’s more interested in knowing the REAL you…

…even if it means having to iron out the kinks.

He knows it’s a messy process, but he doesn’t mind.

Amanda, a friend of mine was telling me about her husband, Donnie:

“You know, at first I thought he was kind of a jerk for being so straight up with me. But he always respected me even though we disagreed on something.”

Then she added, “And if I messed up in some way, he called me out on it without making me feel bad. I’d get mad at Donnie before, but now I respect him for not just telling me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to.”

 

True Love Sign #5: He meets you halfway…or MORE than that

 

We all know relationships are about give and take, but a guy in love is way more interested in GIVING than taking.

And when he gives, you’re 100% sure there’s no strings attached. He does it because he wants to, and it doesn’t matter how much he gets back in return.

Real love doesn’t keep score, so your guy isn’t going to bring up the time he waited half an hour because you had a last-minute emergency at work, or that he had to cancel poker night with the guys to see you.

Superficial relationships usually have self-serving agendas (i.e. sex, money, bragging rights).

When a guy is more concerned about having the favor returned, you’ll feel it …

…even if he doesn’t say something like, “I did this for you, now what are you going to do for me?”

Furthermore, a guy who isn’t really in love tends to be more selfish about his preferences.

He’ll likely insist on the stuff he likes rather than asking what you want.

It could be small stuff like where to eat, which movie to watch, or if you prefer the window or aisle seat on the plane.

It could also be things on a larger scale, like deciding where the relationship’s headed.

Fickle (a.k.a. Fake) love doesn’t really do well with making room for compromise, and couples are likely to split over this.

 

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True Love Sign #6: Your guy has “tunnel vision”

 

You can tell a guy’s in love with you if he’s trying to imply that you’re “different” from other women.

He’ll make you feel special - it’s as if you’re the only one that exists in his world.

Men interested in a serious, committed relationship are looking for that one girl who stands above the rest.

And if he thinks you’re The One, he WILL drop some hints to let you know.

Chances are he’ll be indirect about it because men often have trouble expressing themselves emotionally.

Feelings aren’t as familiar territory to them as it is for women (although there are exceptions of course).

That’s why it’s a bit of a challenge for him to untangle something as complex as LOVE.

So he’ll try to let you know by saying something along the lines of “You’re not like other women” or “I’ve never met anyone like you.”

Someone who doesn’t feel as strongly for you won’t ever approach this topic.

That’s because he’s not as focused - or I might even say “obsessed” – with you.

 

True Love Sign #7: He’s always there for you

 

Most women have a little trouble figuring this one out.

But if you pay attention to his actions, there may be clues that he’s not just in it for the physical intimacy.

If he’s constantly doing big AND small stuff for you, it’s his way of letting you know about this true feelings.

A lot of guys are more of doers than tellers when it comes to love.

Also, chances are it’s the real deal if he’s taking note of the small details about you and putting them to good use later on.

Maybe he knows how much you’re into badly made horror movies, for instance.

Then he’ll surprise you with a couple of tickets for a midnight screening of that cult classic you were telling him about the other week.

All this means your happiness is important to him…

…and any guy worth being with doesn’t feel 100% like a man if he’s not doing enough to take care of you.

A guy who doesn’t care, won’t bother remembering those vital pieces of information. And he won’t lift a finger to make you happy unless it benefits him in some way.

True Love Sign #8: He’s part of your life – and not just the fun parts

Another way to tell he’s in love with you if he’s going out of his way to be part of your world.

You might notice him trying to find out what you love doing, then tag along even though he’s not into it himself.

He’ll also be more than happy to meet the other people in your life because he wants to know you better.

Being with your friends and seeing you in action helps him understand what makes you tick.

A guy who’s only interested in doing the deed won’t be interested at all in seeing this other side of you.

It doesn’t serve him in any way, and he doesn’t need to take the relationship past sleeping with you.

Fake love crumbles when things get tough. He won’t muster the energy to get to know your passions and interests, and doesn’t care about the people important to you.

Doing this takes time and effort. Whether or not he goes through this trouble is the real yardstick of his feelings for you.

If he’s willing to make sacrifices that he could have very well avoided…

…and he doesn’t stop trying even when things aren’t always great between you…

…then you’d better hold on to him tight.

This points to the fact that he’s tenacious in the face of adversity, which is more than I can say for the Wham-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am kind of guys out there.

Whether you’ve just been seeing a guy, or you’ve known him for a long time, it’s never a good sign if it just seems like he’s phoning it in.

Maybe he used to show the signs that he’s got a solid commitment to you, but now you’re not so sure about your future with him.

It’s often hard to pinpoint exactly why men pull away all of a sudden.

But you don’t have to panic if your relationship’s going through this phase. There is a way to overcome the wall that men put up when they don’t feel that fire anymore.

What you need to do is understand how men think and get a good grasp of what makes them leave. 

This video explains how to get around the problem of his emotional unavailability, and to make sure he doesn’t ever think of leaving. 

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8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

The #1 Texting Mistake Women Make

Texting Mistakes

Texting Mistakes - You see, men are like puppy dogs:

They're easily distracted by anything new...

      By shiny objects...

            And yes, sometimes by other women.

And if your messages don't grab his attention...

And force him to think about you when you're not around...

He'll easily get pulled aside by something else...

And he'll never develop those feelings of infatuation and obsession that make him desperate to hear from you...

To be around you...

And ultimately to lock you down.

Fortunately, my friend Amy North has come up with a text that guarantees the man you send it to won't be able to stop thinking about you.

Learn about this seemingly magical text here

When you send it to a guy...

You'll pop into his head again and again throughout his day...

He won't be able to shake you from his mind...

And after he texts you back...

He'll check his phone compulsively hoping to hear back from you.

This powerful text is quite clever...

And if you're anything like me, you'll kick yourself for not thinking of it yourself:

Check out Amy's video here while it's still up

Texting Mistakes

5 Signs He's The Right Man For You

By Slade Shaw

Author of Why Men Pull Away

5 Signs He's The Right Man For You- "You don't love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand." - L.J. Smith

Tessa, a tech support specialist from Melbourne in her late twenties, has an active social life.

She often goes to sci-fi conventions, regularly holds video game marathons at her place and meets a lot of people who share the same interests - including guys.

As it was, Tessa had been single for some time and was hoping to find a partner who could complement her personality. And even though she had a lot in common with the guys in her social circles, she couldn't quite hit it off romantically with any of them.

So it was a complete surprise when Ben came along and swept Tessa off her feet.

"He's super active in the local sports scene and is very athletic, so he wasn't my type at all...or so I thought," Tessa shared with a girlish smile.

They met by chance at a charity auction set up by mutual friends, and they clicked the moment they met.

"I couldn't put my finger on it at first, but I knew right away he was different, and in a good way," she gushed.

"He wasn't like any other guy I've met, and I don't think it had anything to do with our interests. Ben has this energy and warmth about him that I absolutely LOVE."

How to spot The One

Their worlds were pretty far removed from each other, but that didn't stop Tessa from falling hard for Ben.

It's surprising how couples who seem like polar opposites at first turn out to be a perfect fit.

And most of the time, it can be a tricky business to figure out if a certain guy is a good match for you.

Considering his unique personality and quirks - along with the whole deal about mixed signals - it's hard to sift through all of that and see the signs he's MEANT for you.

So how can you tell he's your Mr. Right...or if you should keep looking?

Read on to find out...

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Sign #1: He's got your back

One thing I've noticed in a lot of couples who've been together for years is how supportive they are of each other.

It's always a good sign when a guy endlessly encourages his partner to pursue her interests and passions - no matter how "out there" they might seem.

If you see that your guy is always trying to push you forward in a HEALTHY direction - especially when you doubt yourself - that's a clear indication he's a good match for you.

When looking for a partner, it's important to find someone who wants to see you GROW and evolve. A guy who acts as a positive force in your life is worth keeping around.

Sign #2: He's part of your world

Like Tessa learned, hitting it off doesn't have much to do with how similar your personalities or interests are.

Sure, having stuff in common makes it easier to break the ice, but in the long run it's not going to keep the relationship going.

The more important factor is how willing he is to be part of your life anyway.

Tessa recalled fondly: "Ben didn't know the first thing about Star Wars, or sci-fi movies in general, but he went with me to the midnight screening of The Force Awakens with my geek friends...and we even wore matching Jedi outfits! I didn't ask Ben to do that, but he suggested the idea and I loved him for that..." If he's into you, he'll care about the things you do. He'll spend his time on them because he knows those things make you, YOU.

And that's exactly what he wants to be part of - your fun and happening life.

Sign#3: You share a special bond

You know how some couples almost seem to know what the other is thinking without saying a word?

It's amazing - and a little eerie - to see them connect at this level that no one else can.

It's not ESP or some other supernatural phenomenon - some people are empathic this way and have a kind of radar for it.

Your guy doesn't have to be psychic or have a sixth sense, nor should you expect him to be.

But if he has the awareness to at least ask you if you're ok, then that's the sign of a concerned - and CONNECTED - partner.

This is the kind of man who can sense that's there's something amiss in your inner world and respond to it.

When he picks up on your signals, he won't just ask if you're doing alright...

...he'll also want to help you get out of your funk, get the proverbial fly out of your soup...

...and basically do anything to make you right as rain again.

And the fact that he cares about what you're feeling or thinking speaks volumes of the kind of guy he is.

Sign #4: He's making the EFFORT

If a guy's important to you, he'll always be working overtime to make sure you're happy.

Men are big on making their partner feel provided for and protected, so he's going to do this in every way he can.

If he's not making plans with you and create amazing, shared experiences together...

...he'll try to help you with something that's bugging you, like your fixing your smartphone or running some errand you hate.

A guy worth keeping is one who'll do anything to take the load off your mind and make your life easier.

Another thing you might notice is how a guy will do things with you on a regular basis.

He'll take you out for morning coffee, walk your dog with you every Saturday or schedule a monthly expedition at his favorite camping spot.

If he does this, take note, because a man doesn't change his schedule that easily.

Only a guy who's in "single" mode will insist on keeping his appointments as they are.

A guy IN LOVE, on the other hand, will suddenly have all the reasons in the world to make his schedule more flexible than a contortionist at the circus.

More than that, he wants to create a shared life with you.

So it's not just what he does - it's also the amount of time he gives up and trouble he goes through in the name of your happiness.

This is one of the most precious gifts he could give anyone.

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Sign #5: He makes everything AWESOME

Even the most boring, everyday things become amazing when you're with him.

Maybe you need to run to the store to get pasta noodles or pick up a package at the post office - but you wouldn't miss it for the world if he offers to go with you.

You're so attracted to each other that everything else seems to fade into the background when you're together.

He wants to know every little you were up to today, and likewise for you.

That's what being soulmates is all about - he turns the mundane into the magical by simply being there.

And when you're having the worst of days, you STILL want him around because you know he's such a positive presence in your life.

He's there to hear you rant about the crazy drama you had with a co-worker, or some other struggle you're going through.

Whatever it is, he's all ears and isn't itching to jump in with a solution to your problems.

He'll sit back, listen quietly and only speak after you're done talking.

He'll only offer his opinion when you ask for it and always make you feel like he's hearing you out.

All of these add up to the unmistakable fact that you've found The One.

Finding this kind of connection with a man is RARE, so you should pay attention when he's showing you the right signs.

More importantly, you need to make sure that spark keeps burning bright and strong with your Mr. Right.

I've seen a lot of couples who were perfect for each other, but drift apart for one reason or another.

Maybe he's not as affectionate as he was before...

...or the passion has faded...

...or he's simply going through the motions.

Worse, it might even seem that he's pulling away.

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4 Traits Women Have (That Men Routinely Fall In Love With)

4 Traits Women Have (That Men Routinely Fall In Love With)

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away <= 

 

4 Traits Women Have (That Men Routinely Fall In Love With) - “Falling in love is easy. Falling in love with the same person repeatedly is extraordinary.”

- Crystal Woods

Aspasia was a famous woman in Greek history who lived during the 5th century.

She wasn’t just known for her knock-out looks, but also for her beautiful mind and razor-sharp wit.

More than that, her life gives us a look into how women of ancient Greece used to roll back in the day.

Originally hailing from Miletus (now known as Turkey), she came to Athens and became a courtesan to influential figures like Pericles, a well-known figure at the time.

Soon enough, Aspasia made a name for herself as she got to know the crème de la crème of Greek society.

Politicians, philosophers, high-rollers - and of course, lovestruck men - naturally gravitated towards her.

Few could resist Aspasia’s beauty and her legendary talent for thought-provoking conversation.

In fact, no less than Plato mentioned her on more than one occasion in his writings. Some scholars even argued that he based one of his fictional characters on Aspasia.

Fast forward to more than a thousand years later, and people are still talking about her.

You don’t get to have that kind of historical impact without wielding some serious mojo.

The natural ability to attract men is so powerful because it goes past culture, beliefs or values.

It’s almost an unfair advantage, really.

Having the RIGHT TRAITS basically gives you the power to tap into a guy’s mind…

…and flip his subconscious switches that tell him how ridiculously attractive you are.

And here’s the thing: those switches have been there since time began.

They’re in the same category of switches that tell a guy when to eat, sleep, fight, or flee.

In other words, it’s PRIMAL.

Once you trigger those instincts, he’s powerless from feeling overwhelmingly attracted to you.

These attraction signals transcend history and have stood the test of time.

But enough talk – let’s get down to it…

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#1: Be Classy, Not Trashy

 

When it comes to instincts, it’s not just about foraging for food or fighting off wild animals.

Part of our brain is also designed to perceive status - and sexual attraction overlaps a great deal with that.

This goes back to ancient times, and being part of a group conveyed a certain status.

So someone who possessed more “social currency” than others had elated a specific psychological response.

It’s not just about having actual money, mind you - although it did have a little bit to do with that.

Higher status also involved other subliminal cues, like hygiene, intelligence, emotional maturity and so on.

These were signals that told men that she was an Alpha Female, so to speak.

Aspasia carried herself with grace, eloquence and dignity. She wasn’t born into nobility, but she came out on top anyway because of these collective traits.

Even though she had her share of haters back then, she let criticism roll off like water on feathers.

Women also size up potential partners in the same way, too.

Masculine traits such as strength, sense of direction and protectiveness appeal to women on a primal level.

This also harkens back to the days of tribal societies. Women traditionally had to depend on the father figure to keep them safe from immediate threats like starvation or bandits.

Obviously, a LOT has changed since then, and that model doesn’t really apply anymore.

But our evolutionary brains tell us otherwise. Deep inside, a part of us still need to check off that list before we can give someone the green light.

That said, if you can cultivate a personality built on feminine strength, flirty playfulness and a good old dose of classy…

…then you’d be hard-pressed not to have a bunch of guys fighting over you.

 

#2: Let him see the REAL you

 

It’s not easy to let a guy see your softer, more sensitive side. It might feel like opening a can of worms when you’re with someone you don’t really know that well yet.

But part of connecting with a man on a deeper level involves sharing things that you wouldn’t tell anyone else.

And of course, I’m not saying you should launch right into your life story on the first date and bare your soul right then and there.

(Believe me, that’s the kind of stuff that’ll make him excuse himself to the bathroom…then climb out the window.)

What I mean is that when you’re trying to develop an emotional bond with a guy, you can slowly reveal the deeper layers that make up who you are.

Over time, you can gradually share your greatest fears, the people you looked up to as a kid, or the kind of life you want a decade from now.

If you feel that he’s met you halfway…

…and more importantly, EARNED the right to see that side of you…

…then don’t be afraid to open up to him.

Time it right, and he’ll be incredibly honored that you gave him that privilege.

If anything, men badly want to be accepted too, and by making the first move to put yourself out there, he’ll want to reciprocate and open himself up to you as well.

 

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#3: Let Him Bask In Your Femininity

 

When you hear the word “feminine”, you might be thinking of qualities like wearing floral dresses, speaking in a high-pitched voice, gushing about last night’s episode of “The Real Housewives of New York City” or acting…“girly.”

But the real essence of this trait goes beyond the superficial or stereotypical.         

Being a woman in a man’s eyes is having a nuanced combination of qualities.

We’ve already covered the importance of being emotionally open in the last point, but there are a couple of others you need to know.

For instance, let’s backtrack a little bit to what I said about a man’s protective instincts.

Nowadays, your typical guy isn’t really concerned about keeping a lion from mauling his wife and offspring, but that mindset still exists in a different form.

Men still take pleasure in being able to take care of his loved ones. He derives a sense of accomplishment from that, and it’s even tied to his core masculinity.

So if you complement that with your own feminine need to have a guy “take care of you”, he’ll be more than happy to fill that role.

I’m telling you this while being well aware that you don’t need a man to carry you through life.

But I’m also saying this: if you give him the privilege to let him do it anyway…

…it will encourage him to do the things a guy does for his partner.

And of course, this is ALL in the context of a healthy, emotionally balanced relationship.

And I’m pretty sure that’s what you want.

Here’s another feminine quality: be attuned to his needs, and nurture his spirit.

I can already hear some women going, “What about me? I’ve got my own needs…and I’m not about to babysit some man-child with mommy issues!”

But hear me out.

Again, if you want a balanced, functional relationship (as you should), you have to understand what guys want in a partner.

Many men are achievement-driven and results-oriented go-getters in their lives.

From a guy’s point of view, his manliness is on the line whenever he’s out there in the big, bad, world.

So at the end of the day, he wants nothing more than a loving partner who’s got his back.

He needs a woman that can help him untangle that yarn ball of emotions that he himself doesn’t always understand.

And most of all, he years for a woman who’ll ACCEPT him, shortcomings and all.

If you can bring your feminine energy into the equation and heal him this way, you’ll have a devoted partner FOR LIFE.

Now, there are other feminine qualities that attract men of course, but these two tend to be on the top of a man’s list.

Moving on to the last and biggest one…

 

#4: Don’t let him have “ALL” of you

 

I used to have a pet cat named Arlene (bless her furry little soul), and she had a toy mouse that would squeak once she “killed it.”

The funny thing was that she quickly lost interest after she did this a few times.

In her mind, she’d already satisfied her hunting instinct, so her mouse didn’t have quite have that novelty anymore.

In the same way, men have fun pursuing their partner. This is his caveman brain engaging in a social game, endlessly wanting to “dominate” his prey.

I know that might not exactly sound romantic at first, but don’t take this literally.

This is a symbolical need that men have, and it manifests itself in different ways.

For example, ever notice the way a guy gets more and more turned on when you give him “a hard time”?

You can do this in a bunch of situations, like say, giving him a little trash talk after winning at a video game or Monopoly…

… heavily flirting with him at a very public place…

…having little inside jokes between you…

…or having a humorous conversation about the stuff you don’t agree on.

These are all little ways men “test” their partner.

In his mind, he’s wondering about things like:

• “Is she gonna be cool with me hanging out with the guys on the weekends? Or is she going to call every 15 minutes asking me where I am?”
• “Boy, I hope she thinks my board game collection isn’t weird or anything.”
• “Is it going to work if I’m vegan and she likes her steaks medium rare?”
• “She’s not going to freak out when I have to work late nights once a week, will she?”
• “She said she’s ‘not looking for anything serious’…how am I gonna change her mind??”

So he’ll try to find out by “playing” with you and see what other parts of your personality emerge.

But more importantly, he lives for the title of being The One who “caught” you.

From time to time, you can make him feel this by validating his feelings and giving him affection.

But don’t overdo it and smother him with your attention all the time.

For the most part, let HIM do the chasing.

Here’s another way to make him pursue you: have a life of your own outside of the relationship.

Get your own thing going and spend time on the other areas of your life that keep you happy and satisfied.

This reminds him that sometimes, you’re a little bit out of reach, which is how it should be.

He’ll pursue you with a passion and find ways to win you over, again and again.

There are some cases though where a guy isn’t as on-board as you’d like. And as cute as he is, you kinda want to whack him on the head for being so dense.

You might be even feeling a little helpless.

He’s pulling away from you even after you’ve pulled out all the stops and tried every trick in the book.

Well, I’m telling you right now that you haven’t tried them all.

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4 Traits Women Have (That Men Routinely Fall In Love With)